Quote Originally Posted by CorbinDallas View Post
Stop overhealing and wasting my Whispering Dawn/Excogitation/insertotherefficientheals, then I might actually consider helping out. If you're gonna sit and spam Medica/Cure 2 after every mechanic you may as well solo heal, we don't need that much healing in casual content.
This is a big part of it. Not only in PF but also pug DF. An annoying number of healers just heal the second life drops or just completely crush my HoTs. When this happens I just let the other healer carry the party and pitch in if anything crazy happens. Heal -before- the next damage comes in, not after the curent damage just hit.

Also, I haven't experienced what the OP is talking about. But I track the healing and damage done and like Sebazy said, it's often a skill issue or laziness (people afking because they're tired of the content). Hardly ever someone going all out on dps.