First its not about how i tank. And how am i being disrespectful?
As I've said many times if i see the healer is struggling or the dps clearly can't handle burning down large groups I'm not going to do wall to wall.
Now if an impatient dps pulls after I've slower down being it bad dps or healer just struggles to.keep me alive or would rather play green dps they can tank them its that simple.