The 'unwritten rule' for non-tank pulls in dungeons

[Misutoraru]

I believe respecting each other is the very basic of MMO group content

If one found the tank pulling too little and believe the tank could handle more,

I am sure simply asking the tank to pull more would be a more appropriate action than just run ahead

It is the tank job to pull and hold aggro, it is also the job for a tank to access the group and tank personal ability if the tank could pull more. "Ask" is not difficult.

[van_arn]

I believe respecting each other is the very basic of MMO group content

If one found the tank pulling too little and believe the tank could handle more,

I am sure simply asking the tank to pull more would be a more appropriate action than just run ahead

It is the tank job to pull and hold aggro, it is also the job for a tank to access the group and tank personal ability if the tank could pull more. "Ask" is not difficult.

True enough, the ones that get the special assistance are the ones that don't respond to chat. Or they respond with the typical "No." or "You don't pay my sub."

Usually those that respond badly don't even make it to the special assistance phase; I prefer kicking those right then and there.