As an ex-PLD (ARR-4.1) main & self-declared B-rank Tank (B-rank= "can Tank 24-man & reg 4/8-man easy but have no XP in EX-Primal's or Savage") and to be clear I have this thing were I blame myself for any mistake I am at lest partly to blame (basicly I'll insult myself mentially WAY before anyone else can & probably a fair bit worse then they were gona)

That above said I find its better to be safe then sorry, while I was constantly annoyed with anyone pulling for me & would LOVE to just leave them to die my comitment to a mindset I built while playing PLD drove me to ALWAYS take it from them wether I myself could handle it or not. If we wiped I was always blamed, ungeared or lack of skill be damned (even when I said I was new to the place & I always say when its my 1st time threw a place). I got less insults over time (especially after lv50 as I made gearing my PLD 1st a damn near obsesion, even if with Tome gear only) & in HW my IRL friend became my co-healer which made Tanking damn near boring lol, thank you PSN chat. However the stigma from lving & Coil's early "Drama Wars" kept me from endgame highend stuff and with my IRL friends gone cuppled with my epic selfdoubt I gave up PLD/WHM early into 4.0-4.1

Now with all that boring backstory over with I personally as MCH will NEVER EVER intensionally pull anything & will do my best to never take arrgo from the Tank unless I know the mob will die before me, I can miss judge that fact but thats why Kiteing is an option, & my reason is simple "Let everyone else decide/argue the pace" cause I don't care I'm DPS... I'll just try to keep up