The 'unwritten rule' for non-tank pulls in dungeons

[Fynlar]

I am bamboozled by the number of people that go "hur dur if you pull it you tank it!" "That player is not gonna get healed *dab*" instead of initiating dialogue asking why / if they could stop.

Take a wild guess how many of them either ignore you and keep doing what they're doing, or just ragequit the dungeon in protest (very often still without a single word) because they're not willing to entertain your request.

After enough times of this, I'm 300% done with asking. Just don't do it in the first place. Again, if you wanna set the pace, YOU be the tank.