The 'unwritten rule' for non-tank pulls in dungeons

[Vahlnir]

If someone pulls something by accident, I'll take it. It happens. If they want me to pull bigger, I'd prefer they just ask, though. I tend to be lazy, but I'll go for it if the party wants. As long as the healer can handle it, I'm game.

Unless they're running around like their backside is on fire. I will not drag everything else out of Salted Earth and make the rest of the party adjust in order to chase you down, bards. I will imagine some Benny Hill music to accompany you, though.

Exactly. Adapting to the needs of the party is a good thing. It's when someone in the party who isn't the tank takes it upon themselves without saying a word that annoys me. If someone asks a tank to speed up, most of the time they will comply. But they have to, you know, ask, and not go pulling groups ahead of the tank.