The 'unwritten rule' for non-tank pulls in dungeons

[Vahlnir]

It has always been a bit of an unwritten rule that the tank should be the one pulling. Always. In FF XI however some pulls required someone else to do it for them and bring back mobs to the tank to...you know, tank.

I'm one of those people who will probably follow the "you pull it, you tank it" motto as Gunbreaker unless it's someone I know who tends to mess with me anyway. All in good fun though. Did the same in WoW when I tanked for a time, and more than a few people learned a hard lesson and there were no issues afterwards.

I'm a reasonable guy and a forgiving one. I understand things happen like facepulls and tab target fails. I've been there as a dps more times than I can count. In those cases I will pick it up and we can continue on our merry way. Or wipe and continue on our merry way if it ends poorly. But I don't tolerate having people intentionally pull for me as a tank. I will shut that crap down. No exceptions.