The 'unwritten rule' for non-tank pulls in dungeons

[van_arn]

To be fair most of the time I've actually asked someone not to pull extra while I'm tanking I get "LOL LRN 2TANK, UR 2 SLOW!" or something equivalently well thought out as a response. I'm not a bad tank, but first runs in gear that barely broke ilevel I will do single pulls until I know the whole dungeon so i've had a few run ins with people who didn't like how I was doing it.

Those are the appropriate responses to single pulls.

If your gear meets the requirements, you're past Brayflox, and you've kept up with the npc gear for the dungeon you're running, either you're a bad tank or the healer needs to be replaced.