I need help understanding different personality types!

[Edax]

Do you think it might be a perspective thing? For example. I find 'typing' to be boring and pointless,' but the information I learn from a conversation to be well worth the effort. I don't think anyone gets into small talk (or even typing) with those being the end-goals. I think small talk is a stepping stone to better things. And then by looking at small talk as a necessary stepping stone--do you think that might change how you view it?

As I see it, there's no information to be gained from small talk. The definition of small talk: "polite conversation about unimportant or uncontroversial matters". It's almost debatable if communication is even happening when talking small. Maybe it's just because I'm me, but I don't see it as a necessary stepping stone at all.

But if I never found my true-love--that'd terrify me.

Me personally, I don't think I could tolerate the family life. I know media constantly portrays it as bliss but I've realized it's not for everyone. Media and stories love to tell us that we'd all be happier as a duet, that people are meant to be together. In my eyes, love is two people becoming one, and dying as one. And when that days happens, it. is. agony. It's a self-transformation that I'm just not interested in.