O.o Is there some sort of war between tanks and healers?? I don't think I've ever hated a tank for being a tank so much as disliked when people come in with lower ilvl gear and do not use CDs. That being said, I check gear so I know what to expect and I ask nicely/stay polite generally. I leave if people are jerks. XD *shrugs* Not going to stew over it. 9 out of 10 times when I say "Please do big pulls" the tanks listen and do so, many of them even do so enthusiastically. If they do it well and don't lose hate, even if their DPS sucks, they will get a commend typically from me unless a DPS stands out somehow.