Quote Originally Posted by Eloah View Post
I don't think you got what I meant. There is a difference between saying something someone doesn't wanna hear and harassing that person. In your ice mage example, if you try to tell them that they are doing something wrong by informing them about the proper way, that is not harassment, because it's not something directed at them it's directed to them; similar to the laughing with you or laughing at you thing. But if you were to poke fun at the way they play and how stupid they are for not using this spell or this rotation, then that would be harassment.

Plus, if the person on the receiving end says stop and you or anyone persist, then it's definitely harassment at that point.
You're contradicting yourself.

You just said "But if it's a behavior that someone is doing specifically to you, that you find uncomfortable, that's harassment, pure and simple" and then tried to claim that there was more nuance there... which is it?

That ice mage might find the very idea of anyone suggesting they change anything they're doing uncomfortable. It isn't a logical response but it's defintely one a lot of people have to the point that "you don't pay my sub" is a meme here.

You don't get to decide what harrassment is, the system that would be punishing said harrassment does. In real life this is generally the legal system. I've known feminists when I was younger who thought a man holding the door open for them was harrassment but they can't call the police if that occurs because they'd be laughed at at best. That's good, their opinion of harrassment doesn't fall within the appropriate confines and is therefore irrelevant.

Being offended over something trivial is childish and entitled, it isn't something that rational adults often do and virtually never is it acted upon without that action being extremely petty.