What culture is that?
So, your intent is to have a good time and laughs for everyone. What happens when you pick someone who doesn't sign up to your school of good times? Are you and yours the arbiters of all good times, everyone has to adhere to what you've decided and damn them if they don't? Who gave you that power? Would you do it in the streets to just anyone? Perhaps you and your friends are a group of guys and you pick on a lone woman in the street, how does it look? Just because you don't see what's behind a toon in game, do you seriously think it's different? Do you or did you ever consider how the recipient of your attention feels or felt about it? Do you understand how, even in just one occasion, it can be construed or even misconstrued if you prefer as harassment regardless of your intent? I mean, did you openly say to your target "Hey, there! This isn't harassment. We're all just going to follow you around and emote or whatever at you for the next half hour. Don't take it personally! It's just fun!", so they know you're just following them for some weird kicks? Or do you really think that it's unimportant how other people feel, only your fun is paramount? Do or did you consider that the people you selected for this fun may only have said it was fun too because there was a group of you and they may have felt pressured?
Your intent is one thing, but it's also how it
looks to the subject of your high jinks which should be of importance. Given it would seem you picked people you didn't know, how could you possibly know how they'd react? Would you even apologise if they were upset by it, or are you going to keep falling back on to them being thin of skin so it's all on them and there's no reason for you to pause, reflect and perhaps take some nuance into at least some consideration?
I mean, I know that's a ton of questions, and feel free to write it off as Answers on a Postcard, but I'm genuinely curious to see what your response is. I really don't want you to feel you have to answer everything or that I'm needling you, but consider this as my brand of fun (finding out what makes people tick). Sorry if it's a bit much!
But really, no one is saying don't have fun, or don't do things because bad stuff will always happen - clearly that's not true! - but if your fun comes at the expense of another person you don't even know, you've really got some hard explaining to do about yourself, and you may find yourself crossing lines you weren't aware existed.
Whether you choose to respond again on not is up to you, but thanks for replying initially all the same, and I sincerely wish you a great rest of your day/evening/whatever it is where you are.
