Inside of the Aether data center?

I'm transferring from Crystal to Aether to play with a bunch of friends, old FC mates and some people who are starting fresh. Unfortunately Cactuar is congested and I can't transfer to it, as that is where most of my friends are. Leaving the server I've been on for almost 2 years of game time, I'm at a loss as where to go. To be honest, mainly just looking for an active friendly community, which I know for the most part is all of them. Whenever I play I mainly just end up spending my time helping out new people. I don't static raid at all, barely do EX primals unless it is old content. Is there a specific server that'd be best for me?

I know with world visiting this type of question is rather moot, but I'd just like my home server/FC to be one I could always just sit around and B.S. with people and relax on.

Opinions?