That this is your situation doesn't mean the rules won't still be in place.

That said, you have read through all of this correct? https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodes...nsfer_service/

According to this you have to wait three days before you can transfer on your account again, which according to you has been over that amount of time, for a Standard world transfer. Are you sure nonthing else on the list is preventing this character's transfer?