Using autism and cancer in comments and as a derogatory term...

[ScarboroughFairy]

Sorry, but what's been "exposed" here? It's exactly the scenario the OP described in his original post - quietly leaving the data centre rather than telling anyone in-game about why he was unhappy with it.

Your answer:

TIL I'm intolerant of myself.

Soul, if you had a problem you should have probably just brought it up with the people who said it, or an officer. Dropping out the FC with nary a word, transferring to a different server, and the creating a thread seeking pity seems like a rather extreme over-reaction

Instead of challenging it, reporting, or blacklisting, OP did exactly as their former FC-mate described. It's cowardly that instead of doing all these things, they took to the forums phishing for sympathy and creating the dumpster fire that is this thread. Doubly cowardly that they would then not bother to even stick around to post when they get confronted. That's what was exposed here. Rest of the context can be found in Ryuujin's original post.

[SerLuke]

Sorry, but what's been "exposed" here? It's exactly the scenario the OP described in his original post - quietly leaving the data centre rather than telling anyone in-game about why he was unhappy with it.

I lead an FC, I try to reach out to anyone that leaves to figure out if I did something wrong or what I could do better, sometimes people reply sometimes they don't. but it woul;d make me really sad if someone went to the forum to vent about me rather than at least attempting to talk to me to work things out first.

[Iscah]

I'm not saying it was the right way to handle it, I'm just saying it's not a revelation. JustJon said it happened that way in his very first post. It's not a secret that he's keeping hidden.

[JohnSpawnVFX]

http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...97#post4999897

OP is still being childish and taking potshots at his former FC mates

[SerLuke]

http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...97#post4999897

OP is still being childish and taking potshots at his former FC mates

Yikes...

[LittleChickenNugget]

Both this thread and the news about the tank/healer classes today have given me cancer.
I hope OP is happy.

[Alucard135]

We actually tried to contact him after he vanished to ask what happened, but because he'd switched data centers we couldn't even do that >.<

This is the first we've heard from him since then.

I bet you guys are now happy that he left, given the other topic he started.

I pray for the other unfortunate FC on Aether that will accept him.

[Krokov]

Don't know if it's changed now but reading the initial post, I didn't see anything about autism mentioned cancer yes but I didn't see a thing could be related to autism.

[NessaWyvern]

Sorry, but what's been "exposed" here? It's exactly the scenario the OP described in his original post - quietly leaving the data centre rather than telling anyone in-game about why he was unhappy with it.

I lead an FC, I try to reach out to anyone that leaves to figure out if I did something wrong or what I could do better, sometimes people reply sometimes they don't. but it woul;d make me really sad if someone went to the forum to vent about me rather than at least attempting to talk to me to work things out first.

Sometimes it is just best to quietly leave and not say anything to avoid drama. Especially if you feel like nothing would change if you brought it up. Like with the FC I was in for a year when a girl and the FC leader started ERPing in FC chat, and later after being confronted, still ERPd in /say chat in the public FC house, and then the FC leader wanted to try to turn my brother bi. Me and my brother Noped out of there. I have posted this scenario in the forums before on someone else's thread, because of the WTFness of it.

I don't know what happened to OP in that FC, but I can understand leaving and posting about it later, as a more general topic.

[SerLuke]

Sometimes it is just best to quietly leave and not say anything to avoid drama. Especially if you feel like nothing would change if you brought it up. Like with the FC I was in for a year when a girl and the FC leader started ERPing in FC chat, and later after being confronted, in /say chat in the public FC house, and then the FC leader wanted to try to turn my brother bi.Me and my brother Noped out of there.

Oh my that’s terrible... yeah I have rules specifically against that kinda thing so things don’t get to that point.