Using autism and cancer in comments and as a derogatory term...

[NessaWyvern]

Sorry, but what's been "exposed" here? It's exactly the scenario the OP described in his original post - quietly leaving the data centre rather than telling anyone in-game about why he was unhappy with it.

I lead an FC, I try to reach out to anyone that leaves to figure out if I did something wrong or what I could do better, sometimes people reply sometimes they don't. but it woul;d make me really sad if someone went to the forum to vent about me rather than at least attempting to talk to me to work things out first.

Sometimes it is just best to quietly leave and not say anything to avoid drama. Especially if you feel like nothing would change if you brought it up. Like with the FC I was in for a year when a girl and the FC leader started ERPing in FC chat, and later after being confronted, still ERPd in /say chat in the public FC house, and then the FC leader wanted to try to turn my brother bi. Me and my brother Noped out of there. I have posted this scenario in the forums before on someone else's thread, because of the WTFness of it.

I don't know what happened to OP in that FC, but I can understand leaving and posting about it later, as a more general topic.