I hear you OP, and I understand where you're coming from. I'm not going to be all "lmao triggereddddd" like some people, but I'm going to offer you some valuable advice: Gender is fake. Gendered terms (King, queen, husband, wife, etc.) are fake. Your gay bro robot can be whatever you or he wants. Life gets a lot more fun when you're not being limited by gender roles or stereotypes.