After playing FFXIV a while, it doesn’t bother me quite as much when a 24p raid devolves into wipes and people blaming each other and rage quitting. It is kind of like getting to experience the “bad” ending of a game with multiple endings or the “game over” screen. You don’t need to win every time, and it is almost boring when you do.

That being said, I appreciate helpful and friendly players who don’t freak out when things don’t go perfectly.