Girlfriend started playing recently and its her first MMO and so far so good. I've told her though, someday, she's going to run into someone who is going to tell her she is terrible and needs to quit the game or worse. I've told her the best thing to do in that instance is just leave the duty and forget about it. There's no point in trying to debate with those people b/c they get their thrills by insulting others. It's not like you lose much for bailing, but you do deprive the other person from being able to continue to insult you.