Looking for like-minded people

[Sasarayu]

I've been playing FFXIV since HW and I really enjoy savage raids and extreme trials but never seem to find similar minded people to play with. In HW I ended up as a trial farming loner.

My only real raid achievement is a server third on O4S after I finally found a group in 2017. That group kicked me which broke my spirits and made me take a 1,5 year long break from FFXIV.

Instead I played WoW and had standing invitations from several raid guilds but the game I love and want to play is FFXIV. I knew that returning would mean to once again face the loneliness and rejection of the FF community but I won't give up.

If there are others like me who play a lot, enjoy moderately high-end "midcore" PvE but can do without the rage, impatience and/or banter and have had problems finding their place on the PvE scene, maybe we could do something together?

I'm very soft and patient and prefer a more meditative grass eating approach to PvE but will always attempt to achieve high performance over time. I'm not a fast prog player but I'm disciplined and have a top level well above average (meaning I can probably handle any DPS check in Savage at least).

I only play SMN. Not because I can't play other jobs but because I prefer to focus on one and not waste time with others.