@OP: Welcome to pvp.

I think people dancing over your dead body is one of the first things you witness when you start any pvp on any mmo. XIV's pvp'ers (not everyone, of course) were so egregious in their behavior that devs had to remove party chat, just to let you have an idea. Once I had met one player that got the luck (or bad luck, depends) to be in my same server, and he decided to curse me over tells fulltime until I decided to blacklist him. But that was an exception, did not receive curses on daily basis.