I stopped playing a while ago due to work so relinquished my old house plot to a friend (gave him til to buy it and waited for timer to run out etc) and he made me co owner/shared of the house in case I came back, he seems to have stopped playing for a while as not caught him online at all but he still has the house have I just missed him (friends list says ??? For days offline) and I know the timer is 45 days or does that reset with me being shared ownership?

On my asking as struggling to find my own plot so was going to decorate this one and use up all my stored items but don't want to do it and loose them if only owner can stop the timer? Hope made sense it's late XD