Good afternoon and thank you for posting on the Final Fantasy XIV Technical Support Forums.

As worldofneil mentioned, it looks like you are being routed through Europe before connecting to the North American Data Center. This is probably the reason for your high ping. Unfortunately, you have little direct control on how you connect to any one particular server. As such, I'd suggest contacting your ISP again to see what they can do about it.

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