Issues like this are the main reason why My hubby and I will not be switching server. knowing that we left behind a lot of friends in a world we no longer have access too. Even more friend then we have on our current server. Luckily we can still use Discord to communicate but we just don't get to do content with.
I'm a Leader, 1/2 of our FC is looking at moving from Balmung to Cactar. My hubby and I will not because we both have personal houses.