There are no official rp servers. The community decides where they rp, not SE.
Also how does a server having rp mean you have to move?
If you knew enough about the housing system you would know that there is a great risk of being unable to find a plot on your new home server, and that if you left a house behind the likelihood of you having to store furniture on retainers for a long time would be pretty high. Sorry but if you are such a professional in IT, then why didn't you do any research before moving?
The system is awful, I agree. But it seems like you didn't do your homework before transferring so you ended up making your situation worse by not informing yourself enough.