That must be awesome to never run out of hands. Even though I have 2 hands, I'm often doing things with both hands. Heck, I often have to figure out using other things besides hands to help myself out. It must be amazing to never run our of hands.
I'm not convinced they have run out everywhere. (I mean, I know there are still some super dead JP servers, but I don't think we care about those here.) I think we're still seeing many houses that will be auto demo'd. Unless the NA population evened out a lot more that I ever thought it would. I guess to know that for sure we'll have to wait like 3 more weeks for the big auto demo.
Even acknowledging that 4-5 years later houses became a finite resource, how long should someone sit and look at an empty world never knowing if it will possibly fill up one day? And just because new people move into your home world, does that mean you should have to give up things that you've had for years? If you have 100 acres of land in real life, then I move to your town and am homeless, should the town force you to sell me some of your land so I can build a house? (That's basically what you're asking SE to do, force people to give up their plots (land) and house.) That's not how things work. It might not be "fair" for the new people, but forcing people to give up homes they worked hard for isn't fair either. And I still don't even understand why people are asking for it. It would probably only add 100-200 more houses per server (at most, and I'm still convinced this is a super high estimate for most servers). On most servers with a housing problem, those 100-200 houses will not help. At all. It's a band aid that would hurt more players than it would help (because it would also hurt all the other new players that still couldn't get a house). Please stop asking for a bad fix.
Sorry, I forgot I wanted to respond to this as well.
I honestly don't agree with the huge hoarding FC groups. I am impressed by the fact that they were able to accomplish it on such a heavily populated server. Thinking what they did was ok and acknowledging how difficult it must have been are 2 very different things. I think the 2 people on Mateus are living my decorator's dream of housing, but I definitely was not impressed with what seemed like a copy paste of all the houses they designed in that ward.
The problem is that if you take away all the extreme hoarders, you also take away from the people like me who have 2 houses. I have one for me and one for my BF who lost his house to auto demo (at least once, maybe twice) back when he was hopping around different games more. He was subscribed, but just didn't log in or think about it (even though I told him to). I will only buy him a house so many times before I take the opportunity and just keep a house for him on my account instead of his. And since he doesn't keep a house on his account anymore, I honestly feel like we're basically in the 1/1 rule. The only thing is his house is in my name instead of his. He will never buy a house again. He doesn't even bother with an FC room or an apartment. He uses "his" house constantly.
I don't think the extremes are right, but I also don't think if people bought items in the game according to the game rules that it's right to punish them for it, no matter how much the game grows. It's not our fault as players that SE made a housing system that wasn't sustainable. That SE didn't foresee and haven't been able to keep up with this massive growth. This game has become much more popular in the last few years. The current housing system is a victim of FFXIV's success. The developers know this. They seem interested in fixing it, even if they don't know how yet. Or maybe they have plans and just haven't shared them with us yet until they know how well it work. They seem rather reluctant to share things with us, as we then expect them *cough* Blitz Ball in Stormblood *cough*, even if it turns out not viable.