You can't "lock" something that doesn't exist.

[LaylaTsarra]

Maybe, just maybe, this discussion would actually be civil if both sides tried to act like it. But don't put all the blame on one side if both sides behave equally bad.

Yes maybe but you appear to more willing to blame those who aren't in direct support of the addition or those who are simply trying to explain why the two genders were added and why it so hard to add the others. I wouldn't have responded if you actually weren't trying to assign more blame to the opposing side. And yes both sides have their bad apples.

After all this forum was very vitriolic for quite some time and heaven forbid anyone had a differing opinion that didn't go with the flow of the addition. I also spend a lot of time here as well so perhaps we simply perceive things differently.