Free Transfer question

[Kurando]

1)What happens to my married status and items if I transfer and my partner dosnt? (I do plan on returning to my orginal server after, but don't wanna mess anything up)

3) Will my friends list still be wiped if i transfer back? Or will it restore itself after i return?

You should stay married to the player regardless of your world until you actually annual the arrangement by turning in the ring. Any other items are kept as well, though the ring info might say Obtaining Signature (your partner's name) on a different world.

The friends list should stay if you turn back to the previous world, so as long as you don't delete any which are Unable to Retrieve then you should be fine, but perhaps this will be updated to always show your friends in the list (on same datacentre) because of the cross world visits.

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Yes the recipient will still receive the items, as technically it's already been given away once you have sent them.