I have never, in my entire time playing FF14, seen anyone accuse someone else of being a bad player for not using a parser or a hunt radar. I've gone through a few hundred EX primal kills and haven't even seen a parser mentioned, let alone abuse over it, despite the fact half these seem to go onto fflogs.

A lot of the time the toxicity is from a player consistently doing half of what a player in the bottom 10% for their class should do and getting aggressive over advice.

I would actually like to see Enix really enforce their ToS, completely block ACT and fflogs, if only to highlight from the mass-quitting how much players actually prefer to have this sort of information for self improvement and raid leading, particularly at the high end.