Besides just appearance options, I'd like some of the gestures and motions from other genders to be unlocked. Like the 2nd female DRK idle stance for the males and vice-versa. I'd even be ok with purchasing a motion pack from other races. Like a midlander having the ability to idle, stand and run like a miqote'. It would really allow for more customization of our characters. If a 10-year old game like Aion can do this, I don't see why FFXIV can't.

Other than that more hairstyles, eyes, mouths, face and body shapes and beards/stubble for men.