Personally i would be content if they had the search system from FFXI and the dungeon queue finder system from WoW, Also WoW has an interesting way to deal with ninja's. Loot is defined by the class/role in which uses it and only those that use it can roll Need on it. I never had any problems with the search system FFXI had because i always started my own party, but that doesn't change the fact that some ppl just don't have the guts to put their selves out there and try to start something.. Some ppl prefer to follow and take orders. I believe for SE to be successful they need to give both groups a good system that can either help them make new friends to play with or just give them the shortest route to their content.

In this day and age ppl have far less patience and even less ppl skills. As a business SE has to adapt to that.