What if they're making another Ivalice based Final Fantasy game and it will include the first in game appearance of male viera, so they're holding off until after the game can show off the males first before FFXIV ?
Fingers crossed?

Nonetheless, I cast my vote for male viera and female hrothgar as well. I much prefer male characters that are considered more like pretty boys; and strong female characters are very empowering.

I hope if not soon, the gender lock will be lifted and they will add them both someday.