Already your cookie analogy is off because you're throwing DPS all together so you're not persuading someone like me who doesn't subscribe to that. And you're trying to persuade the devs who do not subscribe to that. I agree that at this juncture you were the ones left out of getting a cookie, but someone would have not gotten a cookie no matter what. So definitely be pessimistic, definitely be upset, but the fact that they've given explanations already shows they recognize you exist. We will see in May how they fix you. I'm assuming the WHM comment of them being "easier" might be them trying to change roles to being like SCH and AST are more complex and WHM is the easy to approach job, something like that, but there's no reason to get up in arms about a translation yet.
I mean, isn't that exactly what they said a day or two after fanfest? Like stage time is limited but they immediately had dev panels and interviews that addressed healers.