I made a forum profile just so I could write this post, because this is a prevailing, repeating issue that I did not foresee FFXIV falling victim to, and yet here we are.
So. The new races. They're pretty cool! And while I do enjoy, and I'm happy that the team has been working hard to implement more options for us, the players, I can't help but feel...disappointed. I'll admit, I knew not to get my hopes up too high because then I would just be bound to get let down, but this isn't something I expected simply because it is an issue that has been under debate and has been at the forefront of the gaming community for years now-decades even! I'm not against gender-locking at all, and it can be very effective, lore-friendly, engaging, and interesting when done correctly.
A good example of "gender-locking" are the Gerudo from the Legend of Zelda (though they are not a playable race, gender still comes into play in BOTW, where you are not allowed entry into their town unless you are female-presenting). They have a lore similar to Miqo'te and Viera, where one gender is secluded, and the other is more prevalent. So far, so good, right? Well, here's where things get sticky and SE starts to go a little wrong.
Gerudo women vs. Viera women. Notice any differences?
Gerudo women are muscular. They have big noses, they have large muscles, and they're extremely tall. While they are still pretty typically feminine, there's still more to them than that. They're strong women. They have features that some (mostly men) may find "unattractive". Viera women are, on the other hand, quite literally Playboy Bunnies.
I am not against gender-locking in the slightest, but it is when you make two separate races that are to be gender-locked (one of which, the Hrothgar, still have females prevalent in their society), and you make the women the same copy-paste image straight off of America's Next Top Model. And yet, you look at the male races, and they're all diverse. They have robust body sizes, facial features, and hell, now they're going to be going full-on beast! But then you look at the female versions of those exact same races, and the they're all petite, and pretty, and dainty, the only exception being female Roegadyn. The males are given diversity. They are given robust options that allow them to truly divide themselves from other players. When you look at the females, they have the same perfect eyelashes, mascara, and pouty lips. They have the same small, rail-thin, not at all muscular body (again, with the exception of Roe women and Highlander women as well). It is almost like you are not allowing women to be diverse, even though that is exactly what women are in the real world.