Genderlocking the way they have is absolutely the product of a sexist ideology. Yet again they have given us hyperfeminine females and hypermasculine males, only this time they are separate races. People are tired of being told that men should be this way and women should be that way. It's sexist nonsense.
Anyone who thinks bunny girls are okay but bunny guys are "weird" is straight up practicing a toxic bias that is borderline bigoted. What does that mean? Our friendly neighborhood google tells us that to be bigoted is to have a prejudiced intolerance of the opinions of others.
SE will never be free of the criticism because we've been putting up with this stuff for FAR too long, both in game and out. This outdated practice needed to die yesterday, and a quick look at history will tell you how people respond to discrimination.
If you need a hint, it's not happily.