I've been in many FFXIV discords, and not once have I ever joined one that actively supported or provided links to botting. For you to say 'each time' seems radical.

Additionally, NSFW channels are hit or miss. I've noticed a lot of discords shying away from them simply due to under-aged users and the headache of policing them. But again, I don't see people posting in-game screenshots of people using mods.

What the heck kind of discords are you joining? lol...