I've played FFXIV on and off for years and greatly enjoy the game. However, I've typically played solo as each time I join an FC/discord/LC I find an a la carte, all you can eat buffet of 3rd party tools that violate the ToS, sites that use those tools, discord bots that datamine, how-to exploits, in-game bots for gathering, PvP, pretty much everything, adult client mods, etc.
- I understand that this is an MMORPG and is unavoidable.
- I understand that SE has an extremely restrictive ToS.
- I understand that SE looks the other way and that you can "get away with it."
When I play a game, I abide by the ToS out of a sense of honor and integrity, even if I do not agree with parts of it. If something is against a game's ToS, and you break it, you are cheating. This isn't subjective. It seems here the community consensus is "something is okay because SE can't find out or won't take action and it is SEs fault anyway not mine."
My experience thus far:
- Joined an FC and typical I parse this, I rank this. I've played MMORPGs for a long time, and FFXIV as well. I'm confident in my rotations and know my fights. I don't need to cheat to be a good player. In other games this is not cheating, in this game, it is. If someone mentions parsing, I report them.
- Joined a Novice Network LS and a mentor on it linked to novice discord. It was like the dark web of FFXIV. Bots, DPS meters, mods (that were just plain gross), etc.
- Joined an RP discord. I mean you want to avoid this stuff, go RP right? Nope. Bots that poll sites which collect parsing information to decide who to raid with. So much for RP.
Is it possible to play this game with others and not violate the ToS, directly or indirectly? At this point, I'm about to throw in the towel and move on. I've loved the lore and story lines, but you can't play a game like this completely alone, it gets old fast. My last attempt was okay, I'll RP I love to RP. But even that seems to be a no go. I think when a game makes a restrictive ToS but then doesn't enforce it, this situation develops. Finally, is all I'm saying allowed? I mean can you have discord bots and DPS meters and that's considered "okay?" Understand, I'm not against the tools themselves and IMHO much of this should be allowed. What I won't do is use them or partake in a community that does the same.