What is a "bad player" to you?

[Selova]

I've been yelled at and harassed as a healer for not doing enough damage. I was yelled at by tanks for keeping them at full health. That's not improving myself. It's not making be better as I want to be better. When I play a healer, I do just that, play a healer. I loathe magic damage with a very firm passion. My overall least favorite anything in the game.

While I in no way, shape or form condone any level of harassment you are literally admitting that you want to be a better player/healer but you aren't willing to do what it takes to become a better player.

There isn't any reason to keep spamming healing spells onto people every time they take damage, there is not enough consistent damage going out to be doing that, all you are doing is wasting mp and over-healing like crazy. Pure healing roles don't exist in this game, there is no reason to be a pure healer nor any benefit to it outside of your personal distaste for dealing damage.

It honestly depends on what your mind set is when you decide to be a healer, you can either decide to just keep spamming your heals when healing isn't needed or you can decide that you want to be as helpful to your group as possible by throwing out damage when healing isn't required. The latter is what separates mediocre healers from great healers.

If you honestly want to aim to improve yourself you will strive and adapt to play your class to the best of your abilility that you are capable of doing. That's really all there is to it if that's your goal.