Lodestone Debate Etiquette

[Jaywalker]

This is more a question/thread tying to FFXIV community than game mechanics or anything. I'm still pretty new here, but my impression is that debates and arguments are really common on this site. Like you can sneeze and bam. There you go.

I personally think that's really healthy and a relief, and while I might disagree about something I don't think I've been actually bothered by anyone here. At worst just the occasional sense of "RELAX GUYS UR COOL JUST ENJOY YOURSELVES" or really mild reproach.

Most cases it seems like people are solid about not taking things personally or to heart, but if any passersby have an opinion--generally are you able to feel okay with people even when you disagree about stuff here?

Seen places where stuff like fandom turns into super serious business haha, just testing the waters.