Hello there
I wanted to talk about something that's been on my mind for awhile now. This isn't going to be a political thing about gender treatment it's much more lighthearted then that I hope. But I've noticed that in the community and even in game that the male NPCs get a lot of attention, I mean A LOT. (Slight spoilers I guess)
Haurchefant, Aymeric, Hien, Thancred, Estinien even Urianger have a lot of fanart and fangirls talking about them being hot and they're there husbandos. Nothing wrong with that of course people like something or someone and want to express it more power to you. But the thing I find kind of odd is that you can say the exact opposite about the female NPCs in the game.
The ONLY female NPC I ever hear anyone talk about in a positive light is Y'shtola. While I think she's okay and 4.4 helped me connect to her a little bit more, I can't shake the feeling that a majority of why she's popular is because she's a mioq'te and the community is obsessed with catgirls. Can't blame ya I like catgirls as much as the next guy (though I prefer bunnies but that's just me). Also the fact that square seems to be hellbent on trying to make her the face of FFXIV. Better than derplander I guess (such a punchable face).
But something I do say a lot of the time is dislike and outright hate for certain female NPCs and I'm pretty sure you can guess at least one of them that gets a lot of hate. I don't have strong feeling either way about Minfilia but I do understand were a lot of the hate comes from. I think the problem with her has more to do with her writing than her actual character. I can see people hating Minfilia for the same reasons someone would hate Princess Peach or Princess Celestia. They're someone held in high regard in universe but the writers often don't show them doing anything to earn it. One of my biggest hopes for 5.0 is to rectify this when Minfilia comes back.
The one female NPCs I see a lot of hate for reasons that deeply elude me is Lyse. I often hear people talk about how useless she was in SB or how disappointing her arc was or the most baffling is how she took all the credit for liberating Ala Mhigo. And I'm just like, did we play the same game? She's right next to me punching dudes in the face. I do know that the transition from Yda to Lyse put some people off but I thought she was fine in the story. Could it have been better? Of course but I still liked her and thought she was fine. She and several others are aware that she was given the role of leader of the resistance out of nepotism but she wants to be a leader by her own merits and we see that in 4.0-1. Nanamo goes though a somewhat similar arc were she wants to stand on her own feet and lead Ul'dah to a brighter future without relying on Raubhan who she wants what's best for him.