Consensual ERP is a beautiful thing, but queuing for a random duty finder party in NOT CONSENT. Consent should be given freely, enthusiastically, and continuously. If any of these criteria aren't met, you need to stop. It doesn't matter if they were into at the beginning. They can stop any time they want. And you certainly shouldn't continue if - like me - the person never gives it to begin with.

also, "please don't report me for being horny' is not a defense. I join duty finders for EXP and tomes, not to be harassed by 'horny' strangers.