Yes and YES!! I thought I was the only one who felt this way and didn't want to readily say anything b/c of it, so it's wonderful to hear that I'm not alone on this!!

As someone who has suffered tremendous abuse in the community, it's bad enough that my name still appears on the friendslist of these people, some of which have sent me MAIL due to such an error, now I have to sit here and actively go out of my way to blacklist these people when I would want to avoid them at all costs. I can be understanding of the fact that this change was implemented due to the oncoming world visit system and all it may bring, however, I would much rather not open old wounds and retraumatize myself by having to expose myself to these people once more.