You're laboring under the assumption that I'm the one having problems with crafting things. I'm not. SO let me clarify for you. I have level 70s across two accounts one with level 70s on mateus and 60s on excalibur and the other with 70s on jenova and mateus. I've been with this game since beta. My account still has the beta tag on the mog station that reads; FFXIV: A Realm Reborn - Beta Test Windows® is registered to this service account. My problem is the difficulty gap for the new players between expansions that are now considered "Leveling" is causing new players to quit the game. There is a flow with arr crafting that is rather enjoyable. Then once you hit that peak at 50 the difficulty spike goes through the roof. Why? Because SE didn't plan on there being a HW because of the debacle with FF14. As the game picked up steam they threw in extra content for ARR (the 6 billion quests for the seventh astral era line for example) and the item level went from 70 to 90 in crafting. No problem there. You have to keep people interested after all.
The issue that new players are having is because as they designed HW they made the completely illogical decision to make the starter level 51 crafting gear for HW Ilevel 65. BELOW ARR level 50 greens. So new players are given a choice. Stop leveling their combat class and go through the trudge of leveling every crafting class just to be able to get the ARR gear needed to HQ a HW item or ignore crafting until 70 because HW level 51 items suck for crafting. Most people do the later. I remember being told "welcome to the REAL end game" once I hit 70 in crafting.
You said "I'd rather gathering and crafting not become a worthless side thing like it is in WoW." Well in a way it is worthless to new players. They can't HQ craft their own gear so they just get them from the vendor for their combat classes once they hit HW and forget HQing a leve item.
As for my reputation I write game reviews so my reputation means something to me. When I look at my feedback page and see 2 messages like "Dude you said (insert game name here) was good but it sucks because (insert reason here)" I usually ignore them. But when it comes to FF14 more then just several people left me a quite a few messages that, when I took the time to think about it, have merit. My IRL friends have tried the game before due to my recommendation, I even paid for their subs and the game, just to help the game grow, and they had bad experiences. Not because of the same reason but it seems this game is getting less and less recommendable.