I am not on Trabia, but look around the trabia forums and see if there is a linkshell contact list etc. If that doesnt' work, start checking people in Uldah and write down there ls names. (if you haven't made the journey to Uldah ...do that ASAP, that's where the people are). After you gather a couple of ls names, try looking them up on the web and/or guild hosting sites...or even on the lodestone (just use the community search/linkshells tabs). Find the leaders of the shells and look for one that is social/helpful to newer folk. Also, try to join any parties you can (they usually start around rank 30ish). This will help you meet people too. All else fails, /sh in town that you are new to the game and looking for a social/helpful ls. Someone will help you.