Is this typical tank behavior in DF dungeons?

[Lambdafish]

Kick, report, and move on with your life. You have already given the idiot too much attention.

I tank. But since you have already labeled me:

I see no point in continuing this discussion.

I also tank, and they are right that you handled the situation very poorly. You said yourself that the tank leads, so you should let them lead. I get it, we all rush low-level dungeons and can be a bit inconsiderate at times, its part of being human, but that doesn't make you right or justified.