Thanks for the answers so far guys. And Freyt this is part of the response I got from support:
Speaking with other members of our community can also be helpful. In addition to having in-game conversations, you are also welcome to use our Official Forums, which are located at http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv. Using the forums allows players to come together and share their knowledge, ideas, and discoveries. It is possible that another player has previously encountered the same concern as you, so we strongly encourage you to join in the discussion. Doing so will not only benefit your adventures, but may also help others along their journey, as well.