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    SannaR's Avatar
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    Sanna Rosewood
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    Midgardsormr
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hope_For_Change View Post
    Not everyone is as quick as you are. But yes, punish the slower and the less intelligent. Kick us when we're done and looking for salvation.
    Clearly you're not as stupid as you're trying to claim to be as you yourself have stated more than once you're bright enough to know you have a problem and that what you have been doing is not the correct thing to do. Also I don't think you are looking for salvation as again you don't seem to have any remorse in what you have done which has led you to this point. So, my first conclusion has to be correct in that you only don't want this final ban to happen because you don't want to lose access to your main. Unless you really do want to try and change and then my last advice to you is show it. Start working on trying to curb your impulses.
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    Caulifla Guraton
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    Quote Originally Posted by SannaR View Post
    Clearly you're not as stupid as you're trying to claim to be as you yourself have stated more than once you're bright enough to know you have a problem and that what you have been doing is not the correct thing to do. Also I don't think you are looking for salvation as again you don't seem to have any remorse in what you have done which has led you to this point. So, my first conclusion has to be correct in that you only don't want this final ban to happen because you don't want to lose access to your main. Unless you really do want to try and change and then my last advice to you is show it. Start working on trying to curb your impulses.
    You fail to see what I'm really up against. All it's going to take is a simple miss tell and I'm ban on the spot. I've sent miss tells before and it was really embarrassing what was seen and I'll never forget it but that doesn't mean it will never happen again. What if something meant for someone close to me is MT and someone takes it out of context and reports me? I'm finished.
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    Souji Hanamura
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hope_For_Change View Post
    You fail to see what I'm really up against. All it's going to take is a simple miss tell and I'm ban on the spot. I've sent miss tells before and it was really embarrassing what was seen and I'll never forget it but that doesn't mean it will never happen again. What if something meant for someone close to me is MT and someone takes it out of context and reports me? I'm finished.
    Then maybe you shouldn't be sending tells with bannable content in them. Case closed. You want to swear and talk s**t? Leave it on discord, and you won't be sending mis-tells.

    And if you don't know the person you're sending the "bannable" stuff to well enough to get their discord info, then you shouldn't be sending them foul/rude/'jokey' tells anyway.
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    Jojoya Joya
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hope_For_Change View Post
    Not everyone is as quick as you are. But yes, punish the slower and the less intelligent. Kick us when we're done and looking for salvation.
    You're not looking for salvation. Salvation comes from getting help from someone who can teach you to control your impulses. It doesn't come from making excuses for your behavior and asking to avoid the consequences for that behavior.

    If they make their penalty system more lenient for your sake, it opens the door for abuse by others. It's not something that benefits the game.

    If you have that much of a problem with how you react to others, there's really a simple solution. Disable chat when you're around strangers that you feel might say something that will provoke you.
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    Hestzhyen Voer
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    Gilgamesh
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    You can't control how people treat you online, and you can't always control your feelings. You can, however, control your own responses. Don't blame other people for your own actions.

    Instead of asking for more lenient treatment why don't you work on reporting without retaliating? If people are being rude to you, you can report them knowing first-hand that the GMs will look into it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hestzhyen View Post
    You can't control how people treat you online, and you can't always control your feelings. You can, however, control your own responses. Don't blame other people for your own actions.

    Instead of asking for more lenient treatment why don't you work on reporting without retaliating? If people are being rude to you, you can report them knowing first-hand that the GMs will look into it.
    Yes, I've been reporting people as they become toxic and say stuff that is report worthy but you need to understand that now I have to walk on egg shells for the rest of my life because of this fear of losing my account. Any rule I break and it's over. I could be joking around with someone who I thought was a friend and they report me for saying something meant as a joke. I'm unable to enjoy the game anymore due to this heavy weight held over my head for the rest of time. Even if I did nothing wrong for 4 years, and one day I slip up and tell someone off again, it's a wrap and all these years and thousands of dollars later, it's all gone over something so small. Others get the same treatment as I do for way worse. The rules should change for telling people off like that. You shouldn't put me in the same pile as hackers, bots, racist people. 1 month long ban each time after in place of the account deletion is a heavy punishment still. 1 month of missing out on weekly and dailys is a crushing loss and something no one will want to have to go through. You can keep the account deletion for those who are way worse like the hackers, bots, and racist people.
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    Zephera Mortera
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    All you have to do is follow the rules. It's not hard for others so why should you get special treatment?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Zephera View Post
    All you have to do is follow the rules. It's not hard for others so why should you get special treatment?
    Because I have a problem controlling my emotions and I make spontaneous actions with out thinking. You can't control it no matter how easy it may sound to just not say anything. It's like telling a addict to just stop taking and expect them to just stop cold turkey. I'm now at the point of having a 800 hour account deleted all because trolls got the best of me. How is this fair at all? All I'm asking for is an option to not just have my account I've played on for years and is the pillar keeping me happy in life during a dark time in my life to not be deleted over telling someone off for being toxic to my friends or others around me. But yeah, I figured the only people to comment on here are the ones to tell me to get over myself. No one understands context matters and every report besides the first one has been brought on due to the actions the other has made before what I said. How is it even fair to put me in the same boat as hackers, resist, sexist and botters? There should be levels of punishment. You don't give a shop lifter life without parole.
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    It's a fair system because everyone agrees to the rules when they sign up to play the game. You agreed to the Terms of Service so you have to abide by them just like everyone else. Again, you're not special.

    EDIT: Also, if you're on your last strike, that usually means you're a repeat offender for saying some truly vile stuff, so you'll have to forgive people for not feeling much sympathy for your case.
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    Last edited by Zephera; 12-18-2018 at 12:42 PM.

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