It's really difficult for me to sympathize with any of this...

I've been playing this game for 5 years, I've butted heads with more people than I can count, I've used swear words and I'm sure I've been reported by other players, whether it was my fault or theirs. But despite all that, I've never even received a warning from a GM. I'm pretty sure it takes several reports from multiple players before the GMs deem it necessary to take action, and even then I'm sure they would just pull you into the Gaol for a one-on-one chat and give you a warning.

But the OP has apparently received several bans on more than one account? I can't even begin to imagine how many reports and warnings that would take...

Honestly, there is nothing to debate here.