it is not hard to make me upset and start to say things I don't mean
Social policy is always in conflict between the concept that people have agency of their actions and that some people do not. For society to function, control must be utilized. Either you control yourself like a human, or you act like a dog and get muzzled.

It obviously gets more dicey when kids and mental-illness are involved. But believe me, that while this is all 'game stuff,' these kinds of issues happen in politics all the time. Actions and products get banned all the time, because someone can't control themselves. Eventually the system gets brought down to the lowest denominator and everyone is restricted, or the people who can't control themselves have to at least have the maturity to limit themselves. If you know you're prone to fights--don't get into situations where you fight. Just like if someone is prone to drunk-driving--don't drink. Please... control yourself, or the government or someone else will step in and not only control you, but everyone else.