Well, since they haven't replied in a couple of pages I am going to assume that they got banned... again.

As someone stated earlier, having mental illness does not mean you get a free pass for repeated undesirable behavior. Being an addict doesn't grant a free pass either, nor does possessing neurological issues such as tourettes. And if OP doesn't want to bother putting in effort to improve their behavior & self-control, doesn't want to be an adult (which a 28 year old is) and accept responsibility for their behavior, then they deserve their perma ban from the game. Each time you're not perma-banned from the game means that you've been granting an opportunity to improve your behavior so that it doesn't happen again. It's your own fault for not taking the opportunity to do just that.

But based upon OP's posts, it sounds like the punishment system is working as intended.